Vet said "is the cat acting lethargic?"
I said "well, he's laying around, drools on me, and wants to fall all over me"
Vet said "well you better bring him in... sounds bad"
I laughed and said "but he always acts this way"
Vet said "he must just be in love"
So it got me to thinking. Being in love is a lot like being lethargic (Lacking mental and physical alertness and activity, sluggish, out of it). It is amazing that when you are "in love" sometimes you do not react to things the way normally would. I step back and look over past relationships and think "what was I thinking?". Too bad for me that I can't blame it on a drug induced lethargic state. I have no excuse other than i was "blinded by love".
But is that possible - to be blinded by love? Do we let people walk all over us when we are "in love"? And is it really love if we are willing to let that person walk on us?