Wednesday, February 10, 2010

trying my darnest ....

Yes, I am trying my hardest to remain positive and so far .....

I AM VERY PROUD OF MYSELF :)

With the passing of Pee and all the other reasons listed in the past posts to be upset about, I have a new found outlook that I have decided to live for today and STOP letting the past or others RUIN a.n.y.m.o.r.e of my life!!!! (only occasionally do I tear up from memories)

BUT .......with Valentine's Day approaching I can't help but be reminded that I lost my two favorite boys in a matter of a month. (again...the Ex boyfriend and my Sweet Pee Kitty)

BUT as I look back over all of my V-day's of the past ....I am reminded that they have never really been that great even if there was a special guy in my life. Now don't get me wrong, in some cases I can say that sweetness abounded from some of my ex's most days of the year .... i was lucky in those situations. And in others....the V day was just a day to be disappointed. I mean how hard is it to buy a card and some candy .... come on. And for those guys who say they don't get caught up in the hype that is V day - you are WRONG. You should always take the chance to tell your lady that she is special. And V Day is a good day to do it.

ANY WAY ------

SO this year I will go into it knowing that ANYTHING sweet that happens...
is out of love and not expectation.

And if the day ends without a smile from the opposite sex, then me and my sweet lady LuLu will do a little dance around my house to "Single ladies" and cuddle with each other!!!

Pictures may follow!! :)

4 comments:

Kris said...

Can I come dance too? I lack a Valentine this year as well.

~Tom~ said...

Here is your smile from a man for V-Day. (I wasn't really sure which of us is the "opposite sex" lol) :o) I am looking forward to the dancing pics on Monday now.

Anything Fits a Naked Man said...

Couldn't have said it better myself!! I'll pick up my Jack Russell Terrier and join you in dance!!

Thanks for stopping by my blog, hope you have a TERRIFIC V-Day!!

CafeCupid said...

Your situation is understandable. Losing your boyfriend and your favorite cat must be quite hard on you but don't forget the life goes on and time tick. You will get a new date in no time.